I knew earlier this year that I wanted to do something about
my diet, so that I could lose weight and maybe be healthier (or some such
nonsense). I also knew that I wouldn’t be successful if I just relied on me.
I get super sidetracked sometimes.
Also, I thought it would be clever to work with actual
doctors or something. People who specialize in Weight loss and nutrition. So I
totally linked up with some people who do that professionally. It was a pretty
smart move, actually.
But that’s not actually what I want to talk about.
So, in the midst of connecting with the professionals, I
stumbled upon a Facebook group.
Truthfully, it started as a thing on Twitter. Some group
liked me, so then I liked them and then this guy Robin sent me a message on
Twitter about his Facebook group. This “Robin guy” said they helped with “confidence,
dating, health, careers, fitness, and image.” I figured it was worth a shot.
What could I lose? The worst thing that would happen is I like.. unjoined the
group if I hated it.
I KNOW! I’m not supposed to talk to strangers! But that’s
PRETTY MUCH what Twitter is.
So yeah, I joined this Facebook group called Coaching for
Geeks.
It was a good choice for me because I mean, I’m pretty
geeky. I like geeky things like video games, comic books, and D&D. I have a
few fandoms that I follow (Doctor Who, Shadowhunters, Marvel movies and TV
shows).
Yeah, I said cripes sake.
It also has become a great source of support for me. I post
my weekly goals to the site every Monday. In fact, one time Robin didn’t post
the thread for the Monday goals, so I just posted mine anyway.
Oh yeah, and Robin is the one who forced my hand into making
better goals.
If I need help or support, I can ask the group for advice.
Or maybe just ask people to post a bunch of memes or gifs to make me happy.
Yeah, I know. It’s not obvious that I pretty much love memes
and gifs.
I’ve been able to network with a number of other people who
have similar interests as I do, which is nice. I found some fun eye shadow and
made a came up with a sweet sweet Halloween costume because of people I met via
Coaching for Geeks.
Who doesn’t like prizes?
The thing I like most about this groups is that unlike other
groups – even this real life wellness group I’m in – this group has the potential
to grow with me. Once I am in a place where I don’t have to be hyper-vigilant
about fitness, I’ll find a new thing to develop about myself. My Coaching for
Geeks friends will still be there.
Unless Robin shuts us down.
I mean, right now that’s pretty possible because he just got
like… sucked into the mainframe or something and evil Nega-Robin has taken
over.
LOOK! Stop trying to understand Geek stuff.
Okay, so I have a real point.
The thing is, you might think – Coaching for Geeks sounds
silly. That doesn’t suit me at all. Why do I care?
You don’t have to like my geeky group.
The take away is -- Go find your own group!
Find that group of people who support you for who and what
you are.
Who have similar interests and can relate to the struggles
you are having.
And I mean, hey – if you are kind geeky, you could join Coaching for Geeks.
But make sure to say Sarah sent you, because I don’t know if
we still do, but we used to get stickers on a sticker chart for stuff like that.
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